This is a headline today “Older people view the past through rose tinted glasses”
Researchers found that ageing brains allow negative memories to fade leaving pensioners with a distorted impression of how great life was in their younger days.
It is believed that as we get older we learn to be less affected by negative information in order to maintain our well being.
In contrast, younger adults need to keep an accurate memory of both positive and negative information to help them through their working life.
Therefore younger people remember more negative events than their older counterparts.
The study also found differences in the way the brains work.
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I wonder how old these researchers are! Do they have experience of what older people think about the past.
I am over seventy years old so maybe they mean people a lot older than me.
The reason older people look back on the good things that happened during their life, is that no one wants to look back at problems or blackspots.
No one can go through life with only good things happening, or if they do they must be one in a million. So we all tend to look back at the good things that did happen.
That doesn’t mean we don’t look forward to the future, since I lost my husband my life is planning holidays and looking forwards to my grand children visiting every week. The PC takes up a lot of my time, and I look forward to Xmas just like everyone else.
Looking back on the past might just happen if I am having a sleepless night, but at the moment my memories are more in the last two or three years, not a good time I must admit. Maybe if I reach the age of 80 or 90 I might start looking back on the good times because there were plenty.
To be truthful I try not to think of the past, its much easier to block it out and concentrate on the life ahead.
Oh one more thing you youngsters might like to know is that even when you get to my age, your mind still feels the same as when you were young. I can be with a crowd of younger people and feel as if I am no different to them, the same age in fact, yet my body shows the difference. So if I tried to act like them they would think I was a silly old woman.
Even my daughters hold my arm when we are crossing roads as if I am decreptive, yet when I am out with my grand children I am looking after them and watching them as we cross roads. So how old to you need to be to be old woman! I suppose it must be when you really start thinking about the good things that happened in your past and really believe that there was never any bad times.
After all If you got to that stage who would want to be reminded about bad times, you have earned the right to spend your last few years as happy as possible.